TRADISI LARANGAN MENOLAK KHITBAH BAGI PEREMPUAN DALAM TINJAUAN URF (STUDY KASUS DI DESA PENDIL, KECAMATAN BANYUANYAR, KABUPATEN PROBOLINGGO)

M. Choiron Nas. 2022, Tradition of the Prohibition of Rejecting Sermons for Women in the 'Urf Review (Case Study in Pendil Village, Banyuanyar District, Probolinggo Regency). Thesis. Madzhab Comparative Study Program, Faculty of Sharia, Zainul Hasan Genggong Islamic University. Supervisor (I) Drs. H. Fathullah, M.H.I. (II) Imam Shafi'i, S.Pd.I, M.H.
Keywords: Tradition, Prohibition, Sermon, 'Urf
Among the people of Pendil Village there is a belief that when a woman is about to be preached or proposed, the application cannot be rejected. Those who violate these rules will get a disaster or better known as denial, which is difficult to get a mate in the future.
This study uses two problem formulations, namely: 1.) What are the views of the people in Pendil Village, Pendil District, Pendil Regency against the tradition of refusing to give sermons for women? 2.) How is 'urf's review of the tradition of prohibiting refusing the sermon? This research is an empirical research and a qualitative descriptive approach. Then how to obtain data in the field through observation and interviews. While in the data processing using editing, classification, analysis, and conclusion techniques.
From the results of this study, according to the community's view, the tradition of refusing sermons for women has existed since ancient times following the customs of ancestors or elders who until now the tradition is still believed. So that the surrounding community does not want to violate the rules because of doubts and also a fear of refusing the sermon. If there is a violation, the local community will talk about it and they will be suspected of not respecting the provisions of the elders or traditional ancestors in the village. The results of the review 'Urf according to the conditions and types of prohibition against refusing the sermon have fulfilled the three requirements of 'urf is authentic but does not meet the fourth requirement, which is contrary to the shari'a propositions' so that it becomes 'Urf fasid when the local community believes that refusing a man's sermon can bring misfortune such as hard to get a mate can even become a spinster. The tradition of refusing khitbah includes 'urf fasid because it can contain elements of shirk and believe in forces other than Allah SWT.
Suggestions from us as researchers to the community, especially the people of Pendil Village, should not believe in the influences of a tradition that smells of shirk.